What kind of ring should you choose for a civil partnership?

On paper, a PACS remains an administrative formality. In practice, however, it is often celebrated with a dinner, witnesses, and sometimes a ring. While this ring is not required, a growing number of couples choose to seal their commitment by purchasing a piece of jewelry. When a marriage follows later, the PACS ring takes on the significance of a promise. Otherwise, it simply becomes the couple’s wedding band. Maty, a jeweler since 1951, provides all the information you need to help you choose the ring that best suits this ceremony. 

Contents

• Should you give a ring for a civil partnership?

• What is the difference between a civil partnership ring, a wedding band, and an engagement ring?

• What factors should you consider when choosing a civil partnership ring?

• How much should you budget for a civil partnership ring?

• Can you personalize a civil partnership ring?

• What are the alternatives to a wedding ring for a PACS?

• What is the significance of a civil partnership ring?

• Civil Partnership Ring: Which Finger Should You Wear It On?

• What kind of ring is appropriate for a civil partnership?

• Why choose a pair of PACS rings?

• What kind of civil partnership ring should a woman choose?

• What kind of civil partnership ring should a man choose?

• Should you choose two identical rings?

• Matching rings: an increasingly popular trend

• FAQ: Choosing a Civil Partnership Ring

Should you give a ring for a civil partnership?

Giving a ring to mark a civil partnership is like taking part in a small ritual, without the strict conventions that govern a wedding band. In this case, anything goes: from a delicate band to a more ornate design. This piece of jewelry carries legal significance, as it symbolizes the commitment made before the law, and also holds sentimental value as a lasting memento. Many couples then wear it every day, as a discreet reminder that their relationship is official.

What is the difference between a civil partnership ring, a wedding band, and an engagement ring?

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PACS rings, engagement rings, and wedding bands: three types of jewelry that may seem similar at first glance, but each tells a different story. The table below summarizes their differences.

The PACS Ring

Nothing in the Civil Solidarity Pact (PACS) requires you to exchange rings. It’s a tradition that’s gaining popularity, but it remains a choice, not an obligation. And since there are no jewelry guidelines governing the PACS, you’re starting from scratch when it comes to style—so let your imagination run wild. For couples who don’t plan to get married, it often serves as a wedding band. Couples often choose:

• a thin gold or silver ring;

• a minimalist ring;

• a ring engraved with a date or a first name.

The engagement ring

An engagement ring symbolizes the promise of marriage. It is traditionally given during a marriage proposal and is often distinguished by:

• a solitaire diamond (with a center stone)

• a piece of jewelry set with a gemstone (sapphire, emerald, ruby)

• A more elaborate, more original design—less traditional than a wedding band—often allows couples to be more creative.

The most popular models are:

• Solitaire

• The Accompanied Loner

• the halo

• vintage models

The Alliance

Wedding rings are exchanged during the wedding ceremony. This piece of jewelry symbolizes the couple's lifelong commitment and is generally characterized by:

• a continuous ring, a symbol of eternity

• high durability for everyday wear

• a design that is often more understated, even though some wedding bands are set with diamonds.

Can a civil partnership ring become a wedding ring?

Absolutely, and it’s actually quite common—as long as it’s made of a durable metal like 18-karat gold or platinum, capable of lasting for years without losing its luster. Other couples, on the other hand, prefer to keep their civil partnership ring as a separate keepsake and choose new wedding bands for their wedding day. Both approaches are equally valid; it all depends on the story you want to tell.

What factors should you consider when choosing a civil partnership ring?

The Budget

People often assume there’s a “right” budget for this kind of jewelry. In reality, that’s not the case: there’s no ideal amount. Everyone makes their own choices based on their financial means and priorities. The budget depends mainly on:

• of your finances;

• of the selected metal;

• whether or not there are stones;

• the symbolic meaning you want the piece of jewelry to convey.

A civil partnership ring costing €40 and another costing €2,000 made of gold or platinum are both perfectly acceptable; what matters most is the emotional and sentimental value you attach to the piece of jewelry.

Metal

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The choice of metal isn't just apparent at first glance; it also affects the jewelry's lifespan and the care it will require.

Worn every day for years and subjected to the bumps and bruises of daily life, a ring had better be made of a metal that stands the test of time—gold or silver, for example.

Style

Since the PACS is not associated with any specific jewelry style, all styles are possible:

• classic ring;

• a slim, understated ring;

• contemporary style;

• textured ring;

• twisted ring;

• ring set with small diamonds;

• colored stone;

• a minimalist or more bold design.

Ultimately, there's only one question that matters: Does this piece of jewelry suit you?

Comfort

A ring is often worn all day long. So it's important to check:

• the width of the ring;

• its thickness;

• its weight;

• the shape of the interior (a slightly curved interior is generally more comfortable).

If you do a lot of work with your hands, or if you never take it off, comfort becomes almost the most important factor of all. The goal is to wear this ring all the time and not have to take it off every day.

The Stones

A civil partnership ring may or may not be set with a stone. If you'd like a stone, there are several options available:

• synthetic or natural diamond

• sapphire

• emerald

• ruby

• topaz

• amethyst

• aquamarine

• birthstone

Engraving

An engraving makes the ring unique. The most common options are:

• first names

• the initials

• the date of the PACS

• a short sentence

• geographic coordinates

• a subtle symbol (heart, infinity sign, star, etc.).

How much should you budget for a civil partnership ring?

There are no rules or traditions that set a minimum or maximum budget for a civil partnership ring, unlike the unwritten rules that sometimes apply to engagement rings. Of course, it all depends on your budget, your preferences, and the symbolic significance you want to attach to this piece of jewelry.

Price ranges by ring type

Good to know: These amounts are provided for informational purposes only. The price varies depending on the metal, weight, gemstones, and quality of craftsmanship.

The main factors that influence the price

Metal

The material is one of the primary cost factors.

• 925 silver: affordable and elegant.

• 9-karat gold: a good balance between price and durability.

• 18-karat gold: more valuable, more durable, and highly prized in jewelry.

• Platinum: particularly durable, but generally more expensive.

The Stones

A ring with a gemstone will generally cost more than a plain band.

The price depends, among other things, on:

• the type of gemstone (diamond, sapphire, ruby, emerald, etc.);

• its weight (carats);

• its quality;

• the number of stones.

Manufacturing

The rate also varies depending on whether it is:

• a collector's item;

• handcrafted;

• a custom-made design.

A custom ring with an engraving or an exclusive design will generally cost more.

Can you personalize a civil partnership ring?

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Absolutely, yes, and that’s actually one of the great things about a civil partnership ring. While wedding bands and engagement rings follow well-established conventions, there are no strict rules for this type of jewelry. The piece can be whatever you want it to be: a reflection of your story, your tastes, and your commitment.

Why personalize a civil partnership ring?

Sometimes, a single detail is all it takes to transform an ordinary piece of jewelry into something deeply meaningful: a subtle engraving, a stone chosen for its symbolism, or a date that holds special meaning only for the two of you. It also ensures that you’ll be wearing a piece that no one else will have.

The Various Customization Options

Have the ring engraved

Engraving is the most common form of customization.

You can register:

• your first names;

• your initials;

• the date of the PACS;

• a symbolic date;

• a few words (“Forever,” “Ours,” “My Obvious Choice,” etc.);

• the GPS coordinates of an important location;

• a symbol that represents your love story.

What are the alternatives to a wedding ring for a PACS?

There’s no rule that says you have to exchange rings for a PACS. Some couples prefer another piece of jewelry, an object that holds meaning for both of them, or even a shared experience. What really matters is marking the occasion in your own way.

Why choose an alternative to a ring?

There are several reasons for this choice:

• You don't wear rings on a daily basis

• Your job makes wearing it impractical

• Would you prefer a more subtle or more unique symbol?

• Would you prefer to save the wedding rings for a future wedding?

• You're looking for a gift that better reflects your partner's personality.

The Most Popular Jewelry

The bracelet

The bracelet is one of the most popular options.

It can be:

• in gold, silver, or steel

• consisting of a thin chain or a bangle

• engraved with a date, initials, or a message.

Its understated style makes it a piece of jewelry that's easy to wear every day.

The Necklace

A necklace allows you to keep a symbol of your commitment close to you.

You can choose:

• an engraved medal

• a pendant shaped like a heart, an infinity symbol, or a tree of life

• a pendant set with a birthstone.

This is a good option for people who don't wear rings.

Earrings

For those who appreciate understated jewelry, a pair of gold earrings or diamond-studded earrings can make for a timeless and elegant gift.

The watch

A watch symbolizes the time we choose to share.

It can be engraved on the back of the case with:

• the date of the PACS

• initials

• A short quote.

It's a gift that's both useful and meaningful.

Personalized Jewelry

No matter what type of jewelry you choose, personalization adds a unique touch.

The most common options are:

• an engraving

• a stone with symbolic significance

• the GPS coordinates of an important location

• a memorable date.

What is the significance of a civil partnership ring?

Exchanging rings for a civil partnership is a way to symbolize a promise: fidelity, support, and love in everyday life. This gesture brings the ceremony to a moving close. Afterward, the ring remains there, on the finger, as a silent reminder of the choice that was made. Each couple gives it the meaning they choose.

Civil Partnership Ring: Which Finger Should You Wear It On?

Most couples in civil partnerships show a clear preference for the ring finger of the left hand, which is the traditional finger for wedding rings.

Some couples prefer to distinguish between a civil partnership and marriage by wearing the ring on their right hand. This choice is also motivated by a desire to reserve the left ring finger for a wedding band in anticipation of marriage.

What if the couple gets married afterward?

There are several possibilities:

• keep the civil partnership ring and add a wedding band;

• replace the civil partnership ring with a wedding band;

• Wear both rings together if their designs complement each other.

What kind of ring is appropriate for a civil partnership?

When celebrating a PACS, you're spoiled for choice: a smooth or hammered ring, engraved or plain, set with precious or semiprecious stones. There's something for every taste—and every budget.

A solitaire ring: a symbol of a promise for the future

Unsurprisingly, the solitaire ring is the most popular choice for a civil partnership. Drawing inspiration from engagement rings, it retains that traditional and elegant appeal that stands out for its timelessness. While it’s instinctively associated with marriage, more and more couples are choosing it to celebrate their civil partnership—as a ritual that serves as a prelude to what may lie ahead.

Its secret weapon? A timeless elegance that transcends trends without ever seeming outdated. A center stone set on a yellow, white, or rose gold band—the ring stands out for its striking appearance. Whether worn as a solitaire or accompanied by smaller stones, there’s no shortage of options.

Gold rings

9- or 18-karat gold remains a safe choice for a civil partnership ring. It withstands the wear and tear of daily life well and will stand the test of time for the couple; it’s a metal often associated with longevity—and even a touch of prosperity.

Silver rings

Although less expensive, 925-part silver remains a popular choice: understated, timeless, and hypoallergenic—a real plus for those with sensitive skin.

Palladium rings

5/1000 palladium belongs to the same family as platinum, but it is lighter and generally more affordable. A civil partnership ring made of palladium thus offers a natural, lasting white color that does not require any surface treatment to be renewed. Its good resistance to everyday wear and tear makes it a practical choice for a civil partnership ring intended to be worn over the long term.

Titanium rings

A contemporary metal popular in jewelry, titanium appeals to couples looking for a civil partnership ring that is both lightweight and durable. Its matte or brushed finish breaks away from the traditional styles of gold or silver and is particularly suitable for sensitive skin, as it does not cause allergic reactions. Worn daily, it retains its appearance and comfort over time, making it a solid choice for a ring that is meant to be worn forever.

Why choose a pair of PACS rings?

Choosing a pair of rings is a way of displaying a shared symbol rather than a piece of jewelry given to just one person. The two rings then tell the same story: equality in the relationship, a life together built by two people.

Matching rings, though not identical

Couples can choose from:

• two identical rings, for a classic and timeless style;

• two coordinating styles, with a similar design but tailored to individual tastes (for example, a slimmer version and a wider version);

• different finishes (yellow gold, white gold, or rose gold) while maintaining the same design.

What kind of civil partnership ring should a woman choose?

When it comes to women's jewelry, there's no shortage of styles: some opt for a simple, understated ring, while others prefer a stone that catches the eye or a more intricately designed piece.

Some of the most popular models include:

• delicate, minimalist rings;

• rings made of yellow gold, white gold, rose gold, or silver;

• rings set with a diamond or a gemstone;

• patterned designs for a brighter look;

• those with a contemporary design.

A civil partnership ring can be simple enough to wear every day or more elaborate if you want to symbolically mark this commitment.

What kind of civil partnership ring should a man choose?

For men, the selection tends to feature understated, easy-to-wear styles for everyday use. The plain band remains a safe bet, even though current collections also offer more bold designs.

The most popular styles are:

• rings made of yellow gold or white gold;

• silver rings;

• models made of titanium, tungsten, or steel;

• brushed or hammered rings;

• the two-tone ones.

The width of the ring is also an important factor. Rings that are 4 to 6 mm wide are suitable for most men, while wider rings offer a bolder style.

Should you choose two identical rings?

There are no set rules here. Some couples love the perfect symmetry of two identical rings. Others prefer two different designs, linked simply by the same metal or a shared detail.

For example, you can choose:

• two identical rings;

• two rings of different widths;

• two models made from the same metal;

• two issues from the same collection;

• a pair of matching rings.

This solution allows everyone to maintain their own style while creating a genuine connection between the two pieces of jewelry.

Matching rings: an increasingly popular trend

Today, more and more couples are moving away from matching rings in favor of coordinated, complementary designs that resemble one another.

For example, she might wear a delicate ring set with a diamond, while he might choose a wider ring made of the same metal. Both pieces of jewelry symbolize the same commitment without being identical.

Which metal should you choose for a pair of rings?

Once again, the metal makes all the difference—not only in terms of style, but also in how the rings will age.

• Yellow gold captivates with its timeless elegance.

• White gold has a modern, luminous look.

• Rose gold adds a soft, romantic touch.

• Cash is an affordable alternative.

• Titanium and tungsten are popular for their durability, especially for men's rings.

For a harmonious pair, it's generally recommended to choose the same metal or opt for two-tone rings that combine several shades.

FAQ: Choosing a Civil Partnership Ring

Is it mandatory to have a wedding ring for a PACS?

No, it's not required. The PACS does not require an exchange of rings—it's a personal choice. Some people give each other a ring to mark the occasion, while others prefer a bracelet, a necklace, a watch, or nothing at all. The most important thing is that the way you celebrate this milestone reflects who you are.

What kind of ring should you give for a civil partnership?

There is no “official” design for a PACS ring. Whether it’s a gold, silver, or platinum band; a minimalist ring; a ring set with a diamond or a colored gemstone; or a custom-designed piece—the best choice is the one that suits the style of the person who will wear it and fits your budget.

Can you choose a wedding ring for a PACS?

Yes, there’s nothing stopping you from choosing a wedding band for a civil partnership; many couples love its simple, timeless design. Some will even keep it after their wedding, while others will opt for new wedding bands when the time comes. It’s simply a matter of personal preference.

What is the difference between a civil partnership ring and an engagement ring?

The main difference lies in their meaning. A PACS ring symbolizes a civil commitment, while an engagement ring signifies a promise of marriage. From a design perspective, the engagement ring is often adorned with a diamond or a center stone, whereas the PACS ring can sometimes be more unique.

How much should you budget for a civil partnership ring?

There really is no limit to your budget. You’ll find rings for around €50 made of steel or silver, and other styles priced in the four-digit range made of 18-karat gold or platinum. The price depends on the metal, the stones, the weight, and how the ring was crafted, but there’s no minimum price requirement.

On which finger should you wear a civil partnership ring?

There are no official rules here. In France, the left ring finger remains the most common choice, just as with a wedding ring. Others prefer the right hand or a different finger, depending on their habits or to keep the left ring finger free for a future marriage.

Can you engrave a civil partnership ring?

Yes. Engraving is still very common. You can have your first names, initials, the date of your civil partnership, a message, a short quote, or a symbol engraved. The length of the engraving depends on the width of the ring.

Can you choose two matching rings for a PACS?

No problem. Many couples choose two rings that are identical or coordinated: the same style, different metals, or simply a shared detail—an engraving, a finish, or a stone. The idea is to create a set that has meaning, without compromising either person’s individual tastes.

 

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